Posted by: adhiwin | July 19, 2008

(Beautifully) Complicated

A week ago, I received an SMS from my little “menye-menye” (used to be or not.. I don’t know.. He..he..)dogol bro, who lives in the middle of nowhere.

He said, “Happy Sunday.. May His Grace shining upon you all day” and he quoted some sentences from Michael W Smith’s song, ”Friend”.

I replied, “Thank you. Hey, that’s the sentences from Michael W Smith’s song, Friend, isn’t it ? How r u ?”.

He answered, ” Yupie… I’ve just heard that song from my notebook. I’m doing just fine here, hoping the same for you.. How r you doing there ?”

A week before, I got some personal problem (hey.. it’s not work related problem, not as usual.. ^_^) and I was completely stucked with it. I just tried to escape from it (Yea..yea.. I know.. It’s my bad old habit) by not thinking of it at all, avoiding my mind think about it…

Then I told him my story, and he replied, “Someone told, it’s not good to escape from the problem”

Whoopssss… That “someone” is ME !!! I was stubbed !!!!!! D*M* !!! He used my word !!! I fully remember that I said to him not to escape from the problem, but face it, think the solution, coz it’s not helpfull at all if you were avoiding it.  Sooner or later you will face it, either you are willing to face it or not…. It’s unstoppable..   Yeaaahh.. it’s easier to talk than to walk the talk.. 

Then I said, “Yeah… I know.. I know.. Life is complicated and difficult… “

He replied, “If it isn’t difficult, It’s not life. Life is beautifully complicated thing.. I’m sure you can handle it.. If you can convinced me to face it, I bet you can handle it. It’s not that difficult.. You are one of the thoughest person I know” (the last sentence is not right.. as I always complain about all things.. He just don’t know.. Ha..ha….)

Hmm… OK.. Yeaahhh.. I fully agree with that statement.. It is difficult, but also beautiful. Our priest, Pak Tong, always remind us “Thank for every difficulties that you get, coz the difficulties itself is a wonderful gift”.  When I faced “the valley” a few years ago, I realize that statement. I learn sooo many things from it. It changed my character..

The harder the struggle, the tougher you will be.  Then, make it not only just a knowledge for you, AWe… Live in it !!!! Be brave, take courage !!!

The score is 1-1 right now.. The result is temporary draw…


Responses

  1. hahahaha.. Tersanjung sayah. hehehhe. gimana? udah beres belum? atau masih dalam tahap escaping?

  2. huaa… ^^ hwaiting kalo kata orang sini hehehe ^^

    jadi langsung kebayang lagu
    ” i want to thank you lord for the time of troubles ^^ ”
    lalu suara background…tengkyu loooord ^^

    hwaiting yak whatever it is :D
    GBU

  3. To Adek Dogol : Beluummm.. He..he.. Masih lari2 neeehhh…. Jarang2 loe wise, bisa memberikan wejangan kayak gitu…

    To Tata : Thanks yee.. Hwaiting itu Jia You yaa ?? Ha..ha… Lha klo nyanyi I Want to Thank You Lord jadi kebayang Ko Ndaru.. Ha..ha..

  4. if he’s your little “menye-menye”, then you must be his HUGE “menye-menye”….

    dengan perut ndut gitu, emang bisa lari-lari ya? hehe… kodok!

  5. I ever faced the same problem. You want to know what I did? I prayed it. Suddenly, with HIS magic things, It just disappeared. Truly. HE can do that. Later on I will tell my story about this. But, I suggest you do the same thing.

  6. Sometimes something is so complicated that we fail to see its beauty at first. So I think let’s just keep the faith that the beauty will be revealed eventually :)

  7. menye menye AGAIN..

    I am bloody hell damn right..


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